"Friends"

I'm so frustrated with my friends. Most of them are so selfish! I had a friend message me the night of my reception all pissed off that I didn't invite her...like really? I've had such a good day and you're going to try to ruin the end?!? I try to get advice for a situation and my friend didn't even listen...she just said, "if you stress too much you'll have a  hard time getting pregnant" I was talking about work and my work situation! I have family members who never invite me to events, I have friends and family members who never come to any events/parties that I throw. I'm just about ready to throw in the towel. I need a major life change.

Stress and Babies

So, Hubby and I had our Reception last night, and ALL EVERYONE kept asking was "when are you going to have kids" My brother and his wife just had a baby 3 weeks ago and ever since that's all anyone ever asks. I'm kind of sad about it because Hubby and I both really want kids and we want them soon, but I want it to be a surprise for everyone, I don't want everyone expecting it! I don't even know what to do about kids anymore, I want them now, but I know it's smarter to wait. I mean, it's a HUGE life decision/commitment so do I follow my heart or follow my head? I don't really even have anyone to talk to about it because all of my friends are so one sided about the situation. I need someone who is on neutral ground that doesn't give me an answer back but helps me see both the pros and cons of BOTH situations! Hubby agrees with me 100% but when it comes down to it we both get very nervous. To accidentally come into parenthood is one thing, but to purposely plan it is a HUGE decision.